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  Emotional Bullshi t Bingo – The Extended Cut By Candz – Boundary Bouncer & Chief Bullsh*t Auditor Premise: You ever try to have a normal conversation with someone about how they hurt you… and suddenly find yourself 20 minutes deep into a monologue about their childhood trauma, your “tone,” and Plato? Welcome to Emotional Bullsh*t Bingo — a game no one consents to, everyone loses, and the prize is often insomnia. How It Works: Grab your mental bingo card. Every time Casper (or his emotionally unavailable clone) says one of these lines, mark your square. First to BINGO? Wins peace, healing, and maybe a therapist with openings. Runner-up? Gets another unsolicited text that ends in “I forgive you.” Bonus Round: Emotional Gymnastics Edition If he says more than three of the following in one convo, you’re not in a relationship. You’re in an escape room. “I can’t explain it, it’s a feeling.” “You’re not perfect either.” “Why can’t we just enjoy the moment?” “Your energy sh...

  Chair 2 – Gaslight. Ghost. Rebuild. A Redemption Arc for the Realest One in the Room By Candz – Narrator of Nonsense & Chair Advocate Episode 1: Chair, Interrupted Chair 2 entered the scene quietly. It didn’t squeak. It didn’t wobble. It simply stood — stable, supportive, unproblematic. Until one day, it got caught in a relationship drama it never signed up for. Casper (Jean, if you’re nasty) emotionally collapsed into it during one of his monologues about soul connections. Candz sat nearby, emotionally exhausted. Chair 2? Holding all the weight. Literally. But as time went on, Casper gave more emotional load than the chair could hold. Candz was blamed for “choosing the wrong chair.” Casper’s logic? “Chair 2 was always yours. You abandoned it.” Meanwhile, Chair 2 had no idea it was in a relationship. Episode 2: Silent But Sat On Let’s be clear — Chair 2 did nothing wrong. But one night, while texting Dani on one device and trauma-dumping onto Candz with the oth...

  How to Not Text Back After Quora A Digital Discipline Handbook for People Who’ve Healed Enough to Laugh Now By Candz — Former Quora Translator, Now Peace Advocate ✋ CHAPTER 1: Read It. Roll Your Eyes. Delete It. So you saw it: A new Quora post from your ex titled “The One That Got Away Was Actually the One Who Couldn’t Handle Me” or worse, “When Love Is Too Powerful to Stay” (yes, that’s a thing people actually post when they’re 93% delusion and 7% midlife crisis). Your heart says: “Should I respond?” Your brain says: “Don’t you fucking dare.” Your new life says: “Who?” 📌 Discipline Rule #1: Reading ≠ Responding. Let them talk to the void. Let the void answer. Let Chair 2 clap back spiritually. 📉 CHAPTER 2: Understanding The Emotional ROI of “Just One Reply” Let’s break down the economics of texting back: What You Send What You Get A well-written emotional response A vague “you’re still mad huh?” A boundary Gaslighting in a 3-paragraph haiku A “just checking ...

  The Casper Textbook: Red Flags in HD, Annotated for Survivors “Because when you zoom in on the nonsense, you see the nonsense clearer.” Compiled by Candz — Emotional Educator & Red Flag Archivist 🎓 Course Overview: This isn’t just a guide. It’s a curriculum . You survived an emotionally confusing, manipulation-ridden relationship that felt like a mix of a philosophy class, a TED Talk, and a silent film where your texts were left on read. Now? We dissect the red flags, line by line — because if you’ve got the receipts, you may as well annotate them. 🧠 Chapter 1: Introduction to Red Flag Literacy Term: Caspering Definition: The act of being emotionally intense, spiritually performative, deeply poetic... and then vanishing mid-commitment conversation. Example Quote: “I see you on a soul level… but I just can’t be what you need.” 🛑 Annotation: Soul-seeing but can’t schedule a coffee? Red flag. That’s spiritual breadcrumbing. Bonus Term: Breadcrumbing: The ...

  How to Emotionally Heal When You’ve Been Mansplained by a Guy Who Thinks Metaphors Are a Personality A Mock Self-Help Guide (That Actually Helps) By Candz — Sarcastic Survivor & Certified Bullsh*t Translator™ Chapter 1: Step One — Realize It Was, In Fact, Bullsh*t Let’s rip the Band-Aid: He wasn’t “misunderstood.” He was manipulative, poetic, and pretending to be enlightened while emotionally dodging accountability like Neo in The Matrix . He called you “intense.” You called him “deep.” Turns out… he was neither. He said: “I’m a complex soul with layers.” What he meant was: “I have zero coping skills and I confuse you on purpose.” The healing starts when you stop translating metaphors and start accepting facts. And the fact is: You were the clarity. He w as the confusion. Chapter 2: You Can’t Heal While Playing Therapist to the Guy Who Wounded You You know what’s exhausting? Being emotionally stabbed, then asked to hold the first aid kit and explain what y...

  CASPERVERSE VOLUME 69: "Innocent Fun" and Other Red Flags Wrapped in Emoji Bible Verses Featuring: A Masterclass in How to Casually Say Something Racist, Controlling, and Batshit — All While Claiming to Help You Heal. Welcome to this week’s episode of “Spiritual Gaslighters Say the Darndest Things,” where our guest star tries to package emotional manipulation, obsessive monitoring, and a racist outburst into a care basket labeled “I'm just trying to help" from a new "friend" Let’s dive in. 🎭 The Setup: He started soft. Gentle questions. “Are you okay?” “Are you alone?” “Hopefully.” —like he’s one vibe-check away from a rosary and holy water. Then it begins. “You’re not home?” “Oh… you’re in a pub?” “Go home, jump in the shower, get rest.” “Don’t blog. Don’t think. Just be.” God will speak. 🤍✨ Awwww. How thoughtful. Except… no. Because then it turned into: “It was supposed to be me night… not we …” “You hardegat.” “You’re ...